我们所期待的生活

Christy

不知道是在什么时候开始听说有“丁克”这么一个词的，那时候也不是很在意。最近却突然想要了解它，便查了些资料，发现它大有奥秘，学问还挺多，光丁克的派生词汇就有很多，如白丁、丁克ing、丁克ed、丁宠以及铁丁等如此各种。然后就开始很想一探“丁克一族”的究竟，他们是如何成为的丁克？他们究竟是怎么生活的呢……于是就有了本期的主题。丁克与否，家还是家，那个最温暖、让你可以安心休憩的港湾。

A family starts with only two and if theyre lucky and work can create something magical called a family.

I dont know when it started，

Or how it all began.

But the two created a family，

To love， honor， and obey each other.

And show respect for others.

A support filled with love，

Someone on who to depend.

How many weve become，

And all because of family.

We have a lot to be thankful for—

The memories through the years，

The many times together，

Full of laughter， full of tears.

——Michelle A. Moran

结婚后无论是选择生儿育女还是选择做丁克，都要先过好自己的生活，连自己都照顾不好还拿什么去照顾别人呢，正如Babycenter.com网站的出资人卡门·王-乌尔里克（Carmen Wang-Ulrich）所说，If you dont take care of yourself， you end up being a burden on others。